Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Church Leaders Counsel Members After Supreme Court Same-Sex Marriage Decision

SALT LAKE CITY — The following letter from the Council of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles is being read in Church meetings across the United States and Canada beginning Sunday, July 5. (The Church issued this brief public statement immediately after the court's decision on June 26, 2015.)




THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
OFFICE OF THE FIRST PRESIDENCY
47 EAST SOUTH TEMPLE STREET, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH 84150-1200

June 29, 2015


TO: General Authorities; General Auxiliary Presidencies; and the following leaders in the United States and Canada: Area Seventies; Temple, Stake Mission and District Presidencies; Bishops and Branch Presidents

Dear Brethren and Sisters:

Enclosed is a statement by the Council of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve in response to the recent Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriage in the United States. The statement also pertains to the situation in Canada. Local leaders are asked to meet with all adults, young men, and young women on either July 5 or July 12 in a setting other than sacrament meeting and read to them the entire statement.

Also included is background material which may be helpful in answering questions that arise.

Stake presidents are asked to see that bishops receive copies of this letter and the enclosures.


Sincerely yours,

Thomas S. Monson
Henry B. Eyring
Dieter F. Uchtdorf


RESPONSE TO THE SUPREME COURT DECISION LEGALIZING SAME‐SEX MARRIAGE IN THE UNITED STATES

June 29, 2015

Because of the recent decision of the United States Supreme Court and similar legal proceedings and legislative actions in a number of countries that have given civil recognition to same‐sex marriage relationships, the Council of the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter‐day Saints restates and reaffirms the doctrinal foundation of Church teachings on morality, marriage, and the family. As we do, we encourage all to consider these teachings in the context of the Plan of Salvation and our Heavenly Father’s purposes in creating the earth and providing for our mortal birth and experience here as His children.

Marriage between a man and a woman was instituted by God and is central to His plan for His children and for the well‐being of society. “God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth” (Genesis 1:27‐28). “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). Strong families, guided by a loving mother and father, serve as the fundamental institution for nurturing children, instilling faith, and transmitting to future generations the moral strengths and values that are important to civilization and vital to eternal salvation.

A family built on marriage of a man and a woman is the best setting for God’s plan of happiness to thrive. That is why communities and nations generally have encouraged and protected marriage between a man and a woman, and the family that results from their union, as privileged institutions. Sexual relations outside of such a marriage are contrary to the laws of God pertaining to morality.

Changes in the civil law do not, indeed cannot, change the moral law that God has established. God expects us to uphold and keep His commandments regardless of divergent opinions or trends in society. His law of chastity is clear: sexual relations are proper only between a man and a woman who are legally and lawfully wedded as husband and wife. We invite all to review and understand the doctrine contained in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”

Consistent with our fundamental beliefs, Church officers will not employ their ecclesiastical authority to perform marriages between two people of the same sex, and the Church does not permit its meetinghouses or other properties to be used for ceremonies, receptions, or other activities associated with same‐sex marriages. Nevertheless, all visitors are welcome to our chapels and premises so long as they respect our standards of conduct while there.

The gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us to love and treat all people with kindness and civility—even when we disagree. We affirm that those who avail themselves of laws or court rulings authorizing same‐sex marriage should not be treated disrespectfully. Indeed, the Church has advocated for rights of same‐sex couples in matters of hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment, and probate, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of churches.

The Church insists on its leaders’ and members’ right to express and advocate religious convictions on marriage, family, and morality free from retaliation or retribution. The Church is also entitled to maintain its standards of moral conduct and good standing for members.

As members of the Church, we are responsible to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ and to illuminate the great blessings that flow from heeding God’s commandments as well as the inevitable consequences of ignoring them. We invite all to pray that people everywhere will have their hearts softened to the truths God established in the beginning, and that wisdom will be granted to those who are called upon to decide issues critical to society’s future.


THE COUNCIL OF
THE FIRST PRESIDENCY AND
QUORUM OF THE TWELVE APOSTLES
OF THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER‐DAY SAINTS


Background Material for Bishops and Branch Presidents

On the U.S. Supreme Court Decision on Same‐sex Marriage

The Church has provided a statement dated June 29, 2015, prepared by the Council of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles regarding the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision legalizing same‐sex marriage in the United States. The response reaffirms the divinely‐revealed reasons and proper doctrinal context for the Church’s unequivocal position regarding matters of morality, chastity, marriage, and the family. As the response notes, the Church’s teachings on these subjects are grounded in the scriptural declarations of God’s eternal plan for the salvation and exaltation of His children and are framed in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.” While the statement stands on its own, below is additional information that may be helpful to you in responding to questions that may arise.

For much of human history, civil laws have generally been compatible with God’s laws. Unfortunately, there have been notable exceptions to that pattern. For example, it is legal in the United States to perform an abortion on an unborn fetus. However, this practice is not morally acceptable before God. (See Handbook 1, 17.3). The consumption of alcohol, while contrary to God’s law, is legal in most nations of the world, but the physical and social toll for doing so is a painful matter of record. So, too, with issues of unchaste sexual behavior, whether it be heterosexual or homosexual in its orientation. As the First Presidency has previously said and as this current response affirms, “Changes in the civil law do not, indeed cannot, change the moral law that God has established. God expects us to uphold and keep His commandments regardless of divergent opinions or trends in society” (First Presidency letter on “Same‐ Sex Marriage,” January 9, 2014).

What is the Church’s Policy on Homosexual Relations?

“Homosexual behavior violates the commandments of God, is contrary to the purposes of human sexuality, and deprives people of the blessings that can be found in family life and in the saving ordinances of the gospel. Those who persist in such behavior or who influence others to do so are subject to Church discipline. Homosexual behavior can be forgiven through sincere repentance. “If members engage in homosexual behavior, Church leaders should help them have a clear understanding of faith in Jesus Christ, the process of repentance, and the purpose of life on earth.

“While opposing homosexual behavior, the Church reaches out with understanding and respect to individuals who are attracted to those of the same gender. “If members feel same‐gender attraction but do not engage in any homosexual behavior, leaders should support and encourage them in their resolve to live the law of chastity and to control unrighteous thoughts. These members may receive Church callings. If they are worthy and qualified in every other way, they may also hold temple recommends and receive temple ordinances” (Handbook 2, 21.4.6).

Does the authorization of same‐sex marriage affect my right to religious freedom?

Our individual right to religious freedom is protected by the First Amendment to the United States’ Constitution and by the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. As we exercise that right, we must also exercise tolerance and respect toward others’ rights but do so without condoning behavior that goes contrary to the laws of God. “While we strive for the virtue of tolerance, other commendable qualities need not be lost. Tolerance does not require the surrender of noble purpose or of individual identity. The Lord gave instruction to leaders of His restored Church to establish and maintain institutional integrity—‘that the Church may stand independent’ (D&C 78:14)” (Elder Russell M. Nelson, “Teach Us Tolerance and Love,” April 1994 general conference). How do I respond respectfully to those who consider the Church’s position on this matter unchristian? Our objection to same‐sex marriage is not based on animosity toward anyone, but on our understanding of God’s purposes for His children. For us, the issues are not simply “tolerance” and “equality.” The issues are the nature of marriage and the consequences of redefining a divinely established institution. In addition, redefining marriage in the law can have profound consequences for society, particularly for children. Mothers and fathers matter, and they are not interchangeable. “On the subject of public discourse, we should all follow the gospel teachings to love our neighbor and avoid contention. Followers of Christ should be examples of civility. We should . . . be good listeners and show concern for the sincere belief [of others.] Though we may disagree, we should not be disagreeable. We should be wise in explaining our position and, in doing so, ask that others not be offended by our sincere religious beliefs and the free exercise of our religion” (Elder Dallin H. Oaks, “Loving Others and Living with Differences,” October 2014 general conference).

What if I have reservations of my own regarding the Church’s position on this subject?

“Members who . . . have doctrinal questions should make a diligent effort, including earnest prayer and scripture study, to find solutions and answers themselves. Church members are encouraged to seek guidance from the Holy Ghost to help them in their personal lives and in family and Church responsibilities.

“If members still need help, they should counsel first with their bishop. If necessary, he may refer them to the stake president. “. . . Stake presidents who need clarification about doctrinal or other Church matters may write in behalf of their members to the First Presidency” (Handbook 2, 21.1.24).


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Thursday, June 25, 2015

Alex Boye' on America's Got Talent

Alvin and I counted Alex Boye' as a good friend, and I still do. Alex was on America's Got Talent this week and he rocked that stage! I am so stinkin' proud of him, as I know Julie must be. God bless you, Alex and good luck on this journey. You deserve to win this thing hands down.

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Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Marriage: An Eternal Hope

The marriage statistics for America are waning as more and more people exhibit the inability to commit to someone for life. There are many reasons this is happening, but the biggest part is the attack on the traditional family unit. In today's America being married is considered old fashioned; as is believing in God and knowing that marriage is part of an eternal unit.

For me, let me irrevocably state that being married to my sweetheart gave me the greatest nineteen years of my life. Yes, my husband had an extended illness, and yes we were very poor. But we did not let that color our marriage. Instead, we focused on finding joy where we could. It was there when we spent time with family; and it was there when we spent time with each other. Breakfast and a movie every payday was so much fun for the two of us, and no matter how poor we got, Alvin made sure we always had that date.

For the two of us, we not only loved each other immensely, we also know that having been sealed in a temple of God, that our marriage was for time and all eternity. We knew that Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, loved us and had provided a way for us to follow Him back to our heavenly home, but to also be together forever.

From the Proclamation on the Family we find incredible knowledge and promise:

THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.  

WE WARN that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.

If Americans do not turn back from this deadly path, our nation will crumble and fall. If the family unit completely disintegrates, as liberals fondly wish to happen, we cannot save America.

As I have mentioned on this blog before, President Gordon B. Hinckley gave four things that families can do to help cement the familial relationship and strengthen those bonds. I will lay them out again, because I believe them to be that simple and that important.

President Hinckley promised that if every family did these four things that society would turn around within a generation or two. I don't know that we have that much time left before it is all lost, but we must try. We must never give up on our eternal purpose and do all we can to strengthen the family unit.

President Hinckley outlined the following:

1) Families must learn goodness together. Too often, parents are abdicating their responsibilities to the school. Because of this, children are being taught that marriage isn't necessary, that homosexuality is normal, that they are to rat their parents out if they say anything to the contrary. Parents must take back control of the teaching of morality.

Elder D. Todd Christofferson said,

“Women bring with them into the world a certain virtue, a divine gift that makes them adept at instilling such qualities as faith, courage, empathy, and refinement in relationships and in cultures. …  

“Sisters, of all your associations, it is your relationship with God, your Heavenly Father, who is the source of your moral power, that you must always put first in your life. Remember that Jesus’s power came through His single-minded devotion to the will of the Father. … Strive to be that kind of disciple of the Father and the Son, and your influence will never fade.”

It is critical that parents be the only teachers of morality to their children. Never, ever, should that responsibility be abdicated. Remember, President Hinckley said that families must learn goodness together.

2) Families must work together. Why would President Hinckley suggest this would not only strengthen family bonds but also the foundation of a nation? It is really quite simple, if parents teach a good work ethic by example, it is better instilled in their children. There is no place for a sense of self-entitlement in a healthy family or society. We must learn to work for what we want, and to put in a good day's work for a good day's pay.

Orson Scott Card wrote an article for the Ensign magazine:

“Work has two values,” says President Roy Agle of the Bay City Michigan Branch. “It has a cash value, and the value of a sense of accomplishment. And the children need to learn both.”  

The cash value of work is important for children to learn. If they grow up in a family where the parents provide everything they need, and if the breadwinner works outside the home, they may have no concept that somebody actually labors to earn the money.

A good work ethic is one of the most powerful things you can give to your children.

3) Families should read good books together. This is more important than anyone might think. There are those who have written articles stating that reading to your children is racist because everyone doesn't do it. There is no greater lie than this previous sentence.

Reading to your children strengthens their relationship with you. It provides a foundation for academic excellence. It also improves basic speech skills, increased communication, language mastery, increased logical thinking skills, etc.

This is a step in life you simply must give your children. If you can't afford to buy books, then the public library is a great place to find books to read to your children. My mother read to us nearly every night from James Herriot's books, such as All Creatures Great and Small. His books were hysterical and often reduced my mother to tears because she was laughing so hard. I remember some of the stories, and they were funny, but seeing my mother laugh so hard made us laugh too. I have many great memories of my mother reading to us.

4) Families must pray together. Prayer. There is no more powerful communication than that between God and man. President Ezra Taft Benson stated,

“All through my life the counsel to depend on prayer has been prized above almost any other advice I have ever received. It has become an integral part of me, an anchor, a constant source of strength and the basis of my knowledge of things divine.  

“Our Heavenly Father is always near. … Thank God we can reach out and tap that unseen power, without which no man can do his best.” (Message delivered to temple workers and Church employees at São Paulo, Brazil, 20 November 1982.)

If you really stop to think, when we kneel in prayer to God, we don't end up on a phone tree, or talking to middle management or a CSR, it is you and God. When families pray together, it is a cementing bond that strengthens the family, preparing them for the day and closing it out and asking for protection through the night. As children see their parents kneel in prayer, it teaches them to be humble and to recognize that we have a loving Father in Heaven who really does care how we are feeling, our concerns, as well as our hopes and dreams.

These four things, if implemented in our daily lives, can truly make all the difference in your family, and ultimately in our nation.

Please America, do not buy into the liberal rhetoric. Fathers matter. Mothers matter. Children matter. The very essence of the continuation of the human race rests on the health of the family unit.

And lastly, Because of the liberal teachings in schools for the last twenty or so years we have people who are sorely confused about who and what they are. Part of this is because of the breakdown of the family unit, and part of the blame rests squarely on liberals and Hollywood. Let me straighten it out. Men are men. Women are women. Black people are black. White people are white. Brown people are brown. No one, and I do mean no one, should have guilt over their color. You can lie all you want, but you're still a man, a woman, black, white, brown. You can't change your DNA. You can't change your chromosomes. So get over it, recognize that God doesn't make mistakes and you are who you were born to be. Stop trying to change who you are and try to grow, be strong, and make yourself worthy of God's love.

Families matter. They matter to you, and they matter to the nation.

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Tuesday, June 16, 2015

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